Why Bad Things gets Worse

Posted under Facts & Fiction by Nelle

I know for a fact that it is not because of some magic or sheer coincidence, you can hold on to that. But why do it really happen, bad things gets worse? I’m holding that thought for quite awhile now. Before, I thought that fate is just playing some weird games on me and I should care less about it. But when reality hits you, It hits damn hard.

Theory #1: Because of you simply ignored what was happening and had that silent hope that everything would fade away, just like that!

Theory #2: Because you feel that you don’t give a damn about that area of your life and you could go on with life happy!

Theory#3: Because you feel that your the underdog. That you’re some innocent and you have nothing to do with the situation.

Well here’s a FACT. . .

You are not living on a fairytale to keep a hope that a fairy god mother would pop out and give you what you’re wishing for and that all problems would seem like all a bad dream and you will be wrap in your lover’s arm. One first step we should do when a bad thing says hello to us, face it and see beyond what’s in front of you. Dig deeper because that doesn’t come up for a show, you are intended to be part of it.

The hell I care syndrome! You can’t get away with that, you simply can’t. Even when you try your hardest to ignore the truth and live the way you want to. It will drown you with you’re own beliefs. At the end of the day, you will feel more miserable. So start by saying “I care”, so when you got some misunderstanding with someone, do something about it because you care and not because you’re obliged to.

The moment you saw what was happening, that something is not going the right way, you are now part of it. And when you ignored it, you are now an accessory to the crime. So deal with it, not easy but you have to. One thing that I know based on experience is ignoring a bad situation will lead to chaos. There will be a lot of “should have” statements after that but nothing is too late. So keep in mind that you have something to do with the situation you’re seeing, it’s happening and you’re seeing that for a reason.

“I care, and I can do something.”

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